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How the power players do it - by Fortune senior editor at large Patricia Sellers

What Nora Ephron gave to business

June 27, 2012: 8:13 AM ET

Nora Ephron, who died of leukemia on Tuesday at 71, made everyone more human.

Herself, when she felt "bad about my neck."

Her movie characters, when Harry met Sally and fell in love.

Powerful women when she interviewed a CEO (such as Julia Stewart of IHOP) or Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi at the Fortune MPW Summit, probing their pasts and uncovering their souls.

Nora made business funny as she made all of us, her many friends and millions of fans, more human.

I remember bumping into Nora in November of 2007, at a breakfast with her good friend Arianna Huffingtron. Amazon (AMZN) CEO Jeff Bezos had just announced a new product called the Kindle, which Nora had read about and decided was "an homage to books without in any way promising their extinction." She had immediately ordered three Kindles for herself and her two sons.

Weeks later, Nora told me that the Kindles never arrived. She was annoyed and cranky--emotions that Nora wore better than the rest of us--so I invited her to write about her woes in Fortune. She delivered "Me and My Kindle" about the e-reader she never got. After we published her essay, we bought Nora a Kindle.

Nora was the sharpest and smartest writer-director out there. She could take a stick a butter and make an amusing story out of it--and maybe a delicious souffle too. Here's what Nora wrote in 2009 when I asked her to tell us "The Best Advice I Ever Got.":

Never put tomatoes in the refrigerator.

Location, location, location.

Life is too short.

Never run for a bus.

Don't learn how to iron or someone will make you do it.

Don't eat anything that's not worth eating.

You know as much about investing your money as they do.

Yelling at your children is no more effective than speaking softly.

Marry a man who was unhappily married to his first wife for 17 years.

Get a dog.

We'll miss you, Nora. RIP.

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Pattie Sellers
Patricia Sellers
Senior Editor at Large, Fortune
Executive Director of MPW/Live Content, Time Inc.

Fortune senior editor at large Pattie Sellers has written some of Fortune's most talked-about cover stories, including "Marissa Mayer: Ready to Rumble at Yahoo," "Oprah's Next Act," "Can Meg Whitman Save California?" "The $100 Billion Woman" (Melinda Gates), and "Remodeling Martha" (Martha Stewart). She has helped oversee Fortune's "Most Powerful Women in Business" package every year since its launch in 1998. Pattie is Executive Director of the Fortune Most Powerful Women Summit, the preeminent gathering of women leaders in business and beyond. She oversees MPW programs that enable women leaders to extend their influence and empower the next generation—such as Fortune MPW Entrepreneurs and the Fortune-U.S. State Department Global Women Leaders Mentoring Partnership. Beyond her Fortune duties, she is also developing Live Content across Time Inc. Pattie grew up in Allentown, PA, graduated from the University of Virginia, and started at Fortune in 1984. Her blog, Postcards, is about how power players lead, manage others, and navigate their careers.

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